Thats a pretty racked off owner venting! Perhaps before you slit your wrists and jump off the harbour bridge, you should positively confirm where the leak is. I have a 3.0 tdi that has just turned over 302000 Km and in its life it has had a turbo replacement and the dreaded rear seal replacement. It has a very minor leak at present that I am slowly trying to identify. Some of these issues are very expensive and I don't for a moment think that most people will find the outlay palatable or affordable.
Yes, it is hard to stomach the issue but at least confirm the real problem before diving in. Among all the housewife tales, there seem to be a literal swag of sources that don't get much mention.
The oil pan plug copper sealing washer? The sump oil level sender gasket?
Have a look at TSB 10 16 13 2044546/1 June 14, 2016. Thats Audi's official take as of that time re some oil leaks.
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I then found there is a cap about 80mm Dia on the RHS of the engine. It is at the back of the tappet cover. You can access it from the top of the engine. It's a bit of a reach but not impossible.
My car had a pinched o ring seal that was causing the small oil leak. It's a very unusual size seal so I ordered it from VW for about US$5.
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copper injector seal leaking. There is a port per injector above the exhaust manifold where excess unburnt diesel/soot drains
I am a relatively new convert to this model so I have everything to learn and I'm sure that there is much to trip over in the process. VW is a renowned manufacturer of diesel engines and while their software woes may be a bit farcical their mechanical work generally stand the test.
No one can answer your question as the testing to see if heat, vibration, strength etc etc is beyond the resources of anyone here. In theory a seal is possible but the assembly to ensure it remains in the groove during assembly is fraught with problems. Would it seal any better for longer. Who knows?
The only solutions are get a new car or a really old one. One is covered by warranty and the other is fixable by you at minimal cost. My own experience is there is a sweet spot with cars and that is around the year 2000. The machining and assembly is light years ahead of the earlier cars which were an almost daily job to keep on the road. Back in the 60's and 70's blokes spent a part of most weekends just keeping their chariot on the road. None of this really helps with your dilemma so over to you to work out whether to fix or torch it. GL.
C5 RS6: Sportec, Milltek & Wagner -- B5 RS4 : modified -- B5 Audi 1.8 quattro 132 Kw -- 2007 VW Touareg TDI 3.0 with air suspension and lockers-- UNIMOG 404 TLF8